Belonging at its best is one asking “who’s missing at the table?” and another responding with confidence that they will be heard and believed. This was — and still is – Audre Lorde’s role. She boldly declared in rooms full of Black civil rights leaders and white feminists who was missing, and went further still to explain why. Let us belong together, all of us, and make our mark for the common good.
Dear Sister Outsider
by Lavelle Porter
Dear Audre,
Two years, ago your name came up in one of the most improbable places. A few weeks before the St. Louis Rams drafted Michael Sam, making him the first openly gay player in NFL history, a white male sportscaster in Texas named Dale Hansen gave a passionate response to Sam’s critics: “Civil rights activist Audre Lorde said, ‘It is not our differences that divide us, it is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.’” I never thought I’d see the day that a silver-haired, Southern white sportscaster with a Texas accent would publicly quote you, a black lesbian feminist socialist poet, and would do so in defense of a black gay professional football player, but here we are. Hansen’s full statement was powerful and drew attention. But the moment also made me wary. I thought about how this story of a gay athlete coming out in a major male sport was indicative of an assimilationist moment in queer politics. I wondered about your being reduced to an innocuous “civil rights activist” and not the militant poet who criticized the US invasion of your ancestral homeland Grenada, who spent time in the Soviet Union, and who might be critical of the macho, brutal sport that the young man plays or the billion-dollar corporation that runs it.

Here’s a breath of fresh air: Preservation of the commons has not been completely forgotten. In contrast to the continual drive for profit, the commons – systems of common ownership of the most essential parts of our lives, especially land – have been returning to a few countries around the world. They rely on precisely what is needed to reduce economic isolation and restore our interdependence: rely on local knowledge, resist turning everything into profit, cultivate affection for places and people and plants and animals.
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