At Common Good Collective, we talk frequently about creating structures of belonging. That sounds nice, but it doesn’t happen without being truthful. Sometimes, you have to be able to talk plain, even when it hurts. Our common tables won’t really have places for belonging until we address hurt and harm, and find ways to heal.
Frederick Douglass and Ulysses S. Grant on Reconciliation and Its Pitfalls
by Stephen West
Speaking in New York City in 1878, Frederick Douglass had a warning for white northerners about how they remembered the Civil War. “Good, wise, and generous men at the North,” Douglass observed, “would have us forget and forgive, strew flowers alike and lovingly, on rebel and on loyal graves.”
A group of white veterans had invited Douglass to speak at a ceremony commemorating Decoration Day — the holiday, later known as Memorial Day, for remembrance of the Civil War’s Union dead. In the shadow of Abraham Lincoln’s statue in Union Square, Douglass invoked Lincoln’s Second Inaugural Address as he tried to arrest the drift of northern opinion and national politics.
“There was a right side and a wrong side in the late war, which no sentiment ought to cause us to forget,” Douglass declared. “[W]hile to-day we should have malice toward none, and charity toward all, it is no part of our duty to confound right with wrong, or loyalty with treason.”(1)
Poems echo, bouncing around images and phrases to be repeated over again. This inaugural poem echoes back to the Psalms, and further, back further, into the foundations of the story of earth, into the story of people made to wake and simply, very simply, greet the morning.
History is just the practice of the ancient art of storytelling. Some of our best storytellers today use podcasts. There are fewer collective fires to gather around for the telling of stories now, but humans are fundamentally creatures of story. Our suggestion? Listen to one of these with a friend, and talk about it after.
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